Monday, 30 June 2014

For every mistake, there is a positive reality…

I have a perspective about mistakes. I have made mistakes, i still make mistakes and I’ll continue to make mistakes. My error rate has been drastically reduced and will continue to reduce; but my potential for error will remain. 
One of the greatest qualities of a great leader is that he knows how to make mistakes.  Many times, we dread the idea of making mistakes so much that we no longer strife to get things right, rather we work not to get things wrong. For the former, the benchmark is success; and for the latter, the benchmark is error. We have this fear of making mistakes and because of that we often do not make decisions.  It compels us to live in a state of decisive existence; and ending up recognizing all the things we could have done and how we could have done it and never did. This is the thought you need to understand: Trying to avoid making mistakes is like trying not to breath. What happens with that is that sooner or later, you are going to have to do it. Sooner or later, you are going to have to breathe no matter how you try not to.
The truth is, all men fall, small men never rise, but smart men pick something up from the fall as they get up. There’s always a positive reality behind every mistake, no matter how devastating the error is. There’s always a significant lesson to learn. It is not a motivational idea to see mistakes as a ladder. It is nature. It is life. It is impossible not to make mistakes as it is impossible not to breathe. We don’t try not to breathe because breathing is essential, critical and it is nature. You don’t make a decision never to eat again, except you have a strategy for suicide. It’s nature to eat. There’s no human being that can make a resolve never to sleep again. It’s nature to sleep. I can go on and on. Once it’s nature, human response must be to accept and celebrate it. If you live, you must breathe. If you eat, you must pass excreta…you must use the toilet. If you make efforts, you will succeed. But there’s no effort without the possibility of failure. If failure is not a possibility, victory will be meaningless. And error is the pathway to both failure and success. We rejoice after a victory because of the possibility of failure. If error is not possible, failure will be meaningless. There is no human in the world who has not made mistakes. There is no human being living that is not making mistakes and will not continue to make. At our best, our right actions will outweigh the wrong one but both must exist. It’s life. It’s nature. It’s not a substitute and it’s not a choice. 
It is therefore a duty and a critical part of the human life to accept mistakes as life and nature’s way of presenting us with the opportunities to learn something. This is not something you make yourself believe, it is something to accept as truth or suffer from not accepting it. Just like you cannot hate water, you cannot hate mistakes. Now, because you can drown in water and people have drowned in water, does that mean you shouldn’t drink water? Does that mean water does not have a good purpose and plays a key role? These are questions for the soul. We all possess the ability to control the certain variables of which the idea of striving with mistakes is one. 
Mistakes are a critical part of life. Yet, most people know but don’t apply themselves to this truth. I have noticed that one of the key differences between me and most of my peers who didn’t do too well in their journey of life is their reception to this truth. They know that mistakes are a part of life but they still do not apply themselves and engage it as they should. Rather, they allow themselves to be drowned by regrets, self-pity and sentiments. It seems to me that while they know that mistakes are a part of life, they do not know how critical it is to life. But you have the choice to see it differently today and to apply yourself to how critical it is.
As a leader, I owe it to myself and my visionary commitments to do my best to make the best quality decision I can.  But when the outcome of my decision does not turn out like I would have liked, then I will consider it as a part of the learning process and use my mistake to make a better decision in the future. Opportunities once lost, can always be regained. In fact, they come in a better package than the previous. After each mistake, the opportunity to do better will always come, and my lessons from a mistake will be a tool in my next experience. Consider mistakes as valuable tools for future success. 
It is an interesting reality that many of our most valuable lessons in life were learnt from the mistakes we have made as well as the victories we have celebrated. It’s design. It’s nature. The question of life is never about whether I will fail but that whether I will learn a lesson. Big mistakes can cripple us with fear and make us cut our dreams short.  Our challenge as a leader is to not allow mistakes to clip our wings to dream. We have a duty to celebrate mistakes as common things in leadership.  We all make them, no matter who we are.
In looking at my life, though I’ve had the many privilege of delivering results through thorough strategic planning; you may be shocked by how many foolish mistakes I have made, how many risky and foolish actions I have taken and how often and strangely, I made some of my best moves not by thorough strategic planning, but rather by accident. It works! It keeps us humble, and helps us to know that the best of ourselves is not always in our head; and the best of us is despite our frailties and imperfections. Those who seek perfection never see perfect peace. Don’t ask me why, but those who accept their humanity, find amazing levels of strength and genius. I also know that I wouldn’t have stumbled into these things if I wasn’t moving. Let’s keep moving, in a preferred and necessary direction especially; maybe we’ll keep stumbling and somehow, stumble into key ideas, key relationships, stumble into purpose and destiny or relevance. 

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11 People Too Confident for Their Own Good

There's nothing sadder than the few false moments when you think you've won something. Your heart races and eyes widen in celebration, only to be deeply disappointed just seconds later.
The premature celebration has embarrassed underachievers since the early days of competition. But there is a sick satisfaction in watching someone's cocky commemoration turn to utter disappointment as they realize their victory is anything but.

Take this as a lesson — don't celebrate until you're 100% sure you've won. Otherwise, you just look like a fool.
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Friday, 27 June 2014

25 Inspirational Movie Quotes That Will Teach You The Most Valuable Life Lessons

Movies’ one of the most influential sources of inspiration for me. When my life goes rough, motivational movies remind me to be stronger.
Here I’ve collected 25 inspirational movie quotes which will teach you the most valuable life lessons.

1. Be determined. Instead of intending to just try, do it.

Do, or do not. There is no “try”. - Yoda, from Star Wars
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2. Learn to let go and be clear of where you really want to head for.

Love cannot be found where it doesn’t exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. - David Schwimmer, from Kissing a Fool
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3. Your past experiences are valuable lessons to you now, learn from them.

Oh yes, the past can hurt. But you can either run from it, or learn from it. – Rafiki, from The Lion King
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4. Just be yourself because you’re unique and you’ll shine.

Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out? - from What a Girl Wants
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5. Life’s too short to miss out anything, try to take it slowly.

Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it. - Ferris, from Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
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6. You should love and take care of yourself because after all, it’s your own life.

You can’t live your life for other people. You’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts some people you love. - from The Notebook
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7. Everyone has a choice. You can choose your own path in life.

We are who we choose to be. - Green Goblin, from Spider-Man
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8. You deserve what you want when you’re trying your best to fight for it, no one can take that right from you.

Don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want. - Heath Ledger, from 10 Things I Hate About You
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9. There’s no perfect time for anything, do it now or you’ll regret later.

I don’t regret the things I’ve done, but those I did not do. - from Empire Records
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10. You don’t need to hide yourself because you’re afraid of what others think of you. You have the choice to live your own life.

It is not our abilities that show what we truly are… it is our choices. - Dumbledore, from Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets
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11. Just keep going, you’ll make it one day.

“Run, Forrest, run!” - from Forrest Gump
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12. The least expected things happen at your least expected time in life.

My momma always said, “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get.” – from Forrest Gump
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13. Never give up on your dream, fight your hardest for it.

Don’t ever let somebody tell you you can’t do something, not even me. Alright? You dream, you gotta protect it. People can’t do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it. If you want something, go get it. Period. - Chris Gardner, from The Pursuit of Happyness
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14. Don’t stuck in your own little world because the purpose of life is to explore and experience.

“To see the world, things dangerous to come to, to see behind walls, to draw closer, to find each other and to feel. That is the purpose of life.” - from The Secret Life of Walter Mitty
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15. Stop trying to please everyone because it’s impossible. Do what makes you comfortable.

You cannot live your life to please others. The choice must be yours. - White Queen, from Alice in Wonderland
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16. Believe in yourself. Your confidence will lead you to success and happiness.

After a while, you learn to ignore the names people call you and just trust who you are. - from Shrek
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17. In order to achieve your dreams and goals, you’ll go through tough times for sure but hold on!

If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise don’t even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives, jobs. And maybe your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery, isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance. Of how much you really want to do it. And you’ll do it, despite rejection in the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. – from Factotum
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18. Make every moment count, enjoy your life time and don’t waste it.

All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us. - from Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring
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19. The little things you do today could make a great difference in future.

It’s what you do right now that makes a difference. - from Black Hawk Down
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20. Don’t take missing any opportunities as a bad thing, you never know what life is trying to teach you.

Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss. - from The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
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21. Achieving greatness is all about how much effort you make throughout the time.

Great men are not born great, they grow great. - Mario Puzo, from The Godfather
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22. Instead of seeking for happiness, live the moment and that’s where happiness exists.

Me, I still believe in paradise. But now at least I know it’s not some place you can look for because it’s not where you go. It’s how you feel for a moment in your life when you’re a part of something and if you find that moment, it lasts forever. - from The Beach

beach23. If you wait for others to complete you, you’ll never be able to have peace in your mind whenever you’re alone.

Only if you find peace within yourself will you find true connection with others. - from Before Sunrise
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24. Always have hope. Be optimistic for your future.

I know what I have to do now, I’ve got to keep breathing because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring? - from Cast Away
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25. Before you do anything, be clear of why you want to do it. The purpose is an important reason to support what you’ll do.

To find something, anything, a great truth or a lost pair of glasses, you must first believe there will be some advantage in finding it. - from All the King’s Men
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Are there any movie quotes that have greatly inspired you? Share with us!
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23 Inspirational Quotes From Disney Films That Will Teach You The Most Valuable Life Lessons

We’d all somehow influenced by Disney Films as we were growing up. Did you realize that there were life lessons behind some Disney movies? Here are 23 inspirational quotes from Disney films that will teach you the most valuable life lessons.


1. Knowing how to laugh at yourself instead of blaming for your own weaknesses will make you happier. No one’s perfect after all.

To laugh yourself is to love yourself. – Mickey Mouse, Mickey Mouse

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2. You’ll never find something better if you stay in your comfort zone.

“Venture outside your comfort zone. The rewards are worth it.” – Rapunzel,Tangled

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3. The hardest things teach you the most important lessons. If you can get over the challenge, you’ll enter another stage of life, a better one.

“The very things that hold you down are going to lift you up.” – Timothy Mouse, Dumbo

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4. You’re responsible for your life, so face your problems bravely.

“You control your destiny — you don’t need magic to do it. And there are no magical shortcuts to solving your problems.” – Merida, Brave

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5. Forgetting maybe the easiest way to deal with the past, but learning from it is what you should do.

“Oh yes the past can hurt. But you can either run from it, or learn from it” – Rafiki, Lion King

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6. Life’s full of ups and downs, you just have to deal with it and keep going.

“When life gets you down do you wanna know what you’ve gotta do? Just keep swimming!” – Dory, Finding Nemo

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7. You will be what you want to be, don’t let others decide for you.

“You must not let anyone define your limits because of where you come from. Your only limit is your soul.” – Gusteau, Ratatouille

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8. If you want something to happen, make it happen with your actions.

“Fairy tales can come true. You gotta make them happen, it all depends on you.” – Tiana, Princess and the Frog

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9. You have to go through the most difficult times to grow better and stronger.

“The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.” – The Emperor, Mulan

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10. Your life belongs to you, take your own way and don’t follow others’ paths.

“You think the only people who are people, are the people who look and think like you. But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger, you’ll learn things you never knew you never knew.” – Pocahontas, Pocahontas

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11. Don’t give up believing because your beliefs will lead you to where you want to be.

“No matter how your heart is grieving, If you keep on believing, the dream that you wish will come true.” – Cinderella, Cinderella

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12. Let go of what you can’t change and focus on what you can work on.

“If you focus on what you left behind, you will never be able to see what lies ahead. Now go up and look around!” - Gusteau, Ratatouille

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13. Don’t underestimate your ability. You just need to tell yourself you can, and you can!

“Look inside yourself, Simba. You are more than what you have become.” – Mufasa, The Lion King.

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14. Relationships take time and patience. Sometimes you just need to let time lead the way for you.

“You can’t force someone to like you. It takes time for friendship to grow.” – Cody, Suite Life of Zack and Cody

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15. Works are endless, do what you can and stop worrying so much.

“When there’s too much to do, don’t let it bother you. Forget your troubles.” -Snow White, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs
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16. Believe that you can and you’re half way there.

“I am on my way. I can go the distance! I don’t care how far. Somehow I’ll be strong I know. Every mile will be worth my while. I would go most anywhere to find where I belong.” - Hercules, Hercules

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17. Things and people are not what they seem. Don’t judge anything or anyone before you fully understand them.

“Do not be fooled by its commonplace appearance. Like so many things, it is not what outside, but what is inside that counts.” Aladdin, Aladdin

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18. Be patient because miracles do happen every day.

“Even miracles take a little time.” Fairy Godmother, Cinderella

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19. Learning history is not to learn what happened before, but to learn from the previous mistakes so that the history will not repeat.

“Man has always learned from the past. After all, you can’t learn history in reverse!” – Archimedes, The Sword in the Stone

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20. When you truly love someone, you know it’s worth it to sacrifice for them.

“Some people are worth melting for.” – Olaf, Frozen

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21. The littlest act of kindness you do can change the world.

“A little consideration, a little thought for others, makes all the difference.” – Eeyore, Winnie the Pooh

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22. When you’ve done best for your own part, you just need to have faith for what’s coming.

All it takes is faith and trust. – Peter Pan, Peter Pan

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23. Family means we all stay together, no matter what.

Ohana means family, family means nobody gets left behind. Or forgotten. – Lilo, Lilo and stitch
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