We’ve all got dreams of making it ‘big’ one day, but how many of us
actually follow through with those dreams? We make excuses for our lack
of success, saying things like, “Life got in the way,” or “I can’t
handle anymore rejection.”
But not you! You’re on the fast-track to fame and success. Or are you?
Think you’ve got what it takes to make it big? Here are some signs you’re right:
1. You’ve Got A Dream (A Big One!)
What’s
your vision? What do you want to accomplish? What are your hopes and
dreams? Having a dream – even if it’s a little vague – is crucial for
success. Before you can start your journey, you need to have a goal in
mind!
In the words of Walt Disney, "If you can dream it, you can do it." (And before you can do it, you've got to dream it!)
2. You’ve Got A Road Map, But You're Prepared To Take Detours
They
say success is where preparation and opportunity meet. So, when
opportunity comes ‘a knockin,’ you’re going to want to have your plan
already in place. Think of it as your road map to making it big!
What steps do you need to take to get where you want to be? Who do you need to know? What skills do you need to have?
But,
let's be real here, nothing EVER goes exactly according to plan. You
need to be able to adapt to whatever life throws at you. Think of those
things as detours. They're not a huge deal as long as you figure out how
to get back on the main road!
3. You’re Extremely Curious
You
need to have an innate fascination with whatever it is you’re working
toward. You've got to learn as much as you can about the industry, the
people, the culture, and so on. You need to want to be consumed
by it. You've got to understand the problems and be excited about
finding solutions. You’ve got to be passionate, excited, and curious
about all areas of the biz.
When Larry King made his debut in
radio, he made a point to become consumed in the biz. In addition to
doing his own show, he did the weather reports, the sports updates, and
the news broadcasts. He even volunteered to fill in in for people who
were out sick, and took on double shifts.
Why? He wanted to learn all there was to know about the biz. He wanted to practice. He wanted to be good
at what he did. The only way to do that was to explore and go above and
beyond what was asked of him. He called it "taking extra batting
practice."
4. You’re A Little Cocky (Just A Little)
If
you really want to make it, you’ve got to have confidence in yourself
and your abilities. Without confidence, you can so easily get crushed by
negativity and criticism – things you will have to deal with once you
hit the spotlight.
You have to be confident. You have to trust
yourself. And you have to have a deep understanding that you’re going to
make it. For actress Jennifer Lawrence, that understanding came at a
young age.
“I always knew that I was going to be famous,” she told
Vogue magazine. “I honest to God don't know how else to describe it. I
used to lie in bed and wonder: ‘Am I going to be a local TV person? Am I
going to be a motivational speaker?’ It wasn't a vision. But as it's
kind of happening, you have this buried understanding: Of course.”
5. You Realize Failure Is A Minor Setback, Not A Game Changer
If
you’re even thinking about making it big one day, the word “quit” can’t
be in your vocabulary. In the end, you don’t succeed because you don’t
fail; you succeed because you don’t give up. The second you quit, you’ve
lost.
Take Michael Jordan, for example. He has a famous quote,
"I've failed over and over again in my life, and that is why I succeed."
The only reason he succeeded was because he didn't let those failures
discourage him to the point of quitting. Why? Because he realized his
failures were only minor setbacks - not game changers.
I guarantee
you that everyone you look up to has failed at one point or another,
but did that stop them from picking themselves back up and moving
forward? No way, Jose. And that’s why they’re successful.
If you’ve got all of these qualities – congratulations. I’m sure we’ll be hearing your name sometime soon!
What are your secrets to success? What else do you think is necessary for making it big? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
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